There is always a dream partner image in our mind that we are longing for since we were young. Most of the guys prefer a perfect and super lady who is able to cook, do house chores, know how to dress up, have a full-time job, take care of the kids and etc. Yes, who doesn’t like a perfect partner with the stunning look and body? But, we know that’s not a realistic goal. We should feel grateful if we have the all-in-one partner. What if we could not find one? Does it mean the end of the world or forever lone ranger status? Certainly Not!
Here’s a practical example that you may start to practice. “Take out a paper, list down the attributes that you want to look for in your future partner. After done, go through the list, put a (ok) note beside those things that you are able to tolerate and compromise if she/he does not have it. There you go~”If your target partner has the attributes on your list, and you are ok to compromise the rest of them, then you know you could go for he/she.